dear women..

to all women out there,
remember that we have the rights to be loved and respected in the right ways.
we should be handled with care since we have more fragile hearts than men.
in fact, i start to believe that maybe men are heartless (oops no offense).

i mean, please be smart, don't waste your time convincing yourself that he loves you. why?
because when a man loves, he will do anything, he will show you off to the world, he will not let you wonder is he still in love with you or not.

men are basically like the hunters, they go hard for what they really want.
so here's the question, is he going hard for you? does he contact you in the middle his super busy time? does he put your name on his status or use the picture of you both as his profile picture? does he sneak out from his routinity just because he want to meet you? does he supress his ego so the relationship will last? is he willing to make the first move to apologize just because he can't stand not hearing your voice?

these hints are suppose to be so obvious till you won't need to convince yourself anymore, because when a man truly loves you, you just know.

some men are really digging it when it comes to get the women, but they are bad at keeping the relationship last. seriously, what could be more selfish than a person who want to own something but doesn't want to take care of it?
and hey, don't be fooled by these type of flirtatious men, or let we say "womanizer". oh please, they don't even deserved to be called "men", they're like little boys with eyes for everyone, a really turn-off-habit.

to all women out there, please always remember that you're all precious.
don't let the stupid things that these ungrateful men do to you make you feel worthless.
you deserve someone who appreciate your loyalty. you deserve someone who will stand by when everything gets rough. you deserve someone who doesn't merely want to be with you, but is capable. you deserve someone whose actions stay true to their words. you deserve someone who can commit and stay consistent.

i know that you (think that you) love him, but do you really want to be that woman who goes back continously thinking he will change and this time will be different? everyone knows he won't.
don't you pity yourself?
i know that you are happy everytime he text or call you, but will you be happier when you're not crying yourself to bed because you haven't heard a word for him all day (and it happens most of the time)?
do you really want to be one of the women on his chat list? you are worth more than that. you are worth to be the only woman he want to chat all day.

once again,
life is short, don't waste your time waiting for someone who's still doesn't know where this is going on.
don't let he makes you as an option,
because you're not a choice and surely not a backup plan.